I once saw a commercial for a DNA testing location. It made the statement that as many as 1 in 20 children have no idea who their father is. That leads me to believe a few of things.
1. Women today are such whores that not only do they most likely sleep with and not use protection with more than one man a month, but most likely they do that within the same week. They have so little respect for themselves that they submit themselves to stds, unplanned pregnancy (btw I think this is total crap!!! We all know how babies are made, so no protection/no birth control means you are trying for a baby. Men this goes both ways!!!) and basically the public knowledge that they are an easy slut. I don't believe in accidents. I do believe in rape and that some women go on to both have and keep the babies that were a product of rape, but I do not for one second believe anyone that is not using anything had an unplanned or an accidental baby. (first mini rant down)
2. How many of these whores are going on to raise whores? (products of your environment we've been down my thoughts on this before) So let's get hypothetical. If half the one in twenty are females, which is logical, that means that one in forty whores doesn't know her dad. Also, this means one in forty man whores doesn't know who his father is. The odds of two whores in the same town finding each other, being stupid, and having a baby with their sibling have now become pretty decent.
3. Those numbers are just the ones that admit it. Get this, one forth of married women have had some sort of affair, and so have even more "men". Can you really trust your wife? (If the fathers of my children are reading this, yes, I am not a whore and I am over the moon with certainty of their paternity.)
4. This is my last one I swear. How many men have children out there that they are unaware of? I jokingly sent texts to all my guy friends with children that read, "Happy Father's Day to all my friends with kids they know about", but in all seriousness, how many kids are out there wondering where their father is?
I think on some level every man wants to be a father. Not every man wants to be a daddy. I was blessed to have a baby daddy that is a daddy. He comes around. He spends genuine time with our son. I have a father that spends obligational time with his four children and he didn't get so much as a text from me on Father's Day. I don't find it harsh. I know his sperm created our children, but I don't think a check once a week should allow you to claim fatherhood. I think that when your kids are in tears when they call you, that should be a clue that they should be with mom, not with you on a greeting card holiday made for your sense of entitlement.
Every kid should have a basic right to know who their father is. They should be able to know with sincerity why not only mommy and daddy aren't together anymore, but also why mommy and daddy didn't fight harder to make it work.
I also believe women should stop being irresponsible. Grow up. If you wish to engage in grown-up activities at the very least catch the guys first and last name when you sleep with him. Wear protection. If the protection fails at least you have a name. Personally, I would rather see all children be a product of marriage. I know "hypocrite" right, but we were engaged and I thought we were getting married. Kids deserve unconditional free interaction from both parents. They also deserve honesty from them.
If you haven't the slightest clue who the father of your child is, grow-up, make yourself a better person, get married and have a strong male father figure for your child. Set a good example, even if you decide to raise your child on your own. Stop being easy! Get an education! Get a career! Change the person you were into someone your child can be proud enough of to give a Father's Day card to even though you are their mother!
My final thoughts, if you are anywhere with a member of the opposite sex and you are not confident that mommy didn't cheat on daddy, daddy wasn't a man-whore, or that your partner is certain who their dad is, just don't touch it. We wonder why the US is falling behind, maybe this is part of the reason.
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